Telling my partner I lost my job - what worked for you?

I was laid off 9 weeks ago and have not told my family because I do not want them to worry. It has been a long 9 weeks. Bills are coming up and I cannot keep this quiet. What did you say?

Kids often pick up more than you think. A short, calm explanation helped mine feel secure.

Shame is common after a layoff even when it is not your fault. Saying it out loud to one person first helped me.