Telling my partner I lost my job (Chicago)

My spouse does not know yet that I was let go as an accountant. This is my first time dealing with any of this. I feel ashamed even though the company cut a whole team. How did you handle it?

I told my partner the same evening with a simple plan: what happened, what I was doing and what I needed. It was a relief.

Kids often pick up more than you think. A short, calm explanation helped mine feel secure.