Making savings last after losing my job

We are a household of 15 and need to cut costs quickly. It has been weighing on me all week. I listed every subscription and found several I forgot. Did any lender work with you?

I called the landlord and the card company early. Both offered a short payment plan, which I did not expect.

Thanks for writing this out. I went through something close to it last year, and it got easier once I kept a simple log of every call and form.