Layoff happened 10 days ago, feeling lost - what worked for you?

I lost my job as an office manager and I am not sure what to do first. Thank you in advance. I have not told my family yet. Which steps were urgent?

I made a short list: benefits, bills, documents, and then my résumé. One thing each day kept me steady.

Thanks for writing this out. I went through something close to it last year, and it settled down once I kept a simple log of every call and form.