Just got laid off, what should I do first? (update)

They called a meeting on Thursday and 15 of us were let go. I had been there 15 years. I have not told my family yet. Which steps were urgent?

I made a short list: benefits, bills, documents, and then my résumé. One thing each day kept me steady.

Give yourself the first couple of days to be upset. I did, and then I felt able to plan.