How do I tell my family about the layoff? (Chicago)

My spouse does not know yet that I was let go as a recruiter. Any experience at all would help. I want a plan before I speak. What did you say?

Do not wait until a bill surprises them. The longer it goes, the harder it gets.

I told my partner the same evening with a simple plan: what happened, what I was doing and what I needed. It was a relief.