Hiding a layoff from the family, bad idea? after 9 years as a bookkeeper

I was laid off 3 weeks ago and have not told my family because I do not want them to worry. I want a plan before I speak.

I told my partner the same evening with a simple plan: what happened, what I was doing and what I needed. It was a relief.

Kids often pick up more than you think. A short, calm explanation helped mine feel secure.