Hiding a layoff from the family, bad idea? - 15 weeks in

My spouse does not know yet that I was let go as a school bus driver. There are 13 people counting on me, so I am trying to be careful. I feel ashamed even though the company cut a whole team. Did it get easier afterwards?

Shame is common after a layoff even when it is not your fault. Saying it out loud to one person first helped me.

Kids often pick up more than you think. A short, calm explanation helped mine feel secure.