Budget after a layoff: what did you cut first? - any advice?

We are a household of 12 and need to cut costs quickly. I have been trying to stay organised about it. I listed every subscription and found several I forgot. What did you cut first?

I called the landlord and the card company early. Both offered a short payment plan, which I did not expect.

A simple budget with three columns, fixed, flexible and optional, made decisions faster.