Budget after a layoff: what did you cut first? after 13 years as a warehouse supervisor

We are a household of 13 and need to cut costs quickly. I would rather hear the honest version than the polite one. I am nervous about the credit card minimums. What did you cut first?

Thanks for writing this out. I went through something close to it last year, and it got easier once I kept a simple log of every call and form.