Budget after a layoff: what did you cut first?

We are a household of 12 and need to cut costs quickly. I have read a lot of threads here and could not find my exact situation. I listed every subscription and found several I forgot. Did any lender work with you?

A simple budget with three columns, fixed, flexible and optional, made decisions faster.

Ask your utility about hardship programmes. Mine knocked a bit off my bill for several months.