Thank you to everyone who answered my questions - first time posting

I wanted to thank the people who gave me practical advice. It has been a long 2 weeks. I am still searching but I have a plan. What would help newcomers most?

We all started with a panicked question. Thank you for coming back with an update.

Thanks for writing this out. I went through something close to it 14 months ago, and it settled down once I kept a simple log of every call and form.