Simple budget for a tight month

We are a household of 4 and the budget no longer works. There are 4 people counting on me, so I am trying to be careful. I listed needs and wants and cut a few subscriptions. Did lenders work with you?

A paper list of bills by due date helped me more than an app. I could see the month at a glance.

Sell things you do not use. I made about $900 from a weekend of listing.