Just wanted to say thanks - 2 months and counting

I wanted to thank the people who gave me practical advice. It has been weighing on me all week. I feel calmer and more organised now. What would help newcomers most?

Thanks for writing this out. I went through something close to it 2 months ago, and it got easier once I kept a simple log of every call and form.

It is nice to see a thank-you post. Keep going.