How do you handle bills on unemployment? (Milwaukee)

We are a household of 10 and the budget no longer works. There are 10 people counting on me, so I am trying to be careful. The rent is fixed and the car payment is high. Did lenders work with you?

A paper list of bills by due date helped me more than an app. I could see the month at a glance.

I called each lender and asked for a hardship plan. Two agreed to lower payments for a few months.