How do you handle bills on unemployment? - first time posting

We are a household of 13 and the budget no longer works. The rent is fixed and the car payment is high. Did lenders work with you?

Thanks for writing this out. I went through something close to it 6 months ago, and it settled down once I kept a simple log of every call and form.

I called each lender and asked for a hardship plan. Two agreed to lower payments for a few months.