Budgeting tips when income drops

We are a household of 13 and the budget no longer works. There are 13 people counting on me, so I am trying to be careful. I am nervous about falling behind. Did lenders work with you?

Thanks for writing this out. I went through something close to it last year, and it settled down once I kept a simple log of every call and form.

Sell things you do not use. I made about $350 from a weekend of listing.