Networking without feeling pushy after 4 years as a software tester

I want to talk to people in a new field but I hate cold messages. I worked as a software tester before this. I worry about bothering people. What did you ask?

Follow up with a thank-you and a short update. One of my chats led to a referral a month later.

I wrote three short lines: who I am, why them and a small ask for fifteen minutes. About one in four said yes.