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Networking without feeling pushy after 13 years as a web developer

Aditi Choudhury · 2026-05-19T08:32:06.455Z

I want to talk to people in a new field but I hate cold messages. I have been trying to stay organised about it. I want advice, not a job directly. How do you phrase the request?

Aditi Choudhury
5/19/2026, 10:32:06 AM
I want to talk to people in a new field but I hate cold messages. I have been trying to stay organised about it. I want advice, not a job directly. How do you phrase the request?
Emeka Choudhury
9/25/2026, 6:48:31 PM
Keep everything in writing and save the confirmation numbers. It saved me later.

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