How do I ask for an informational chat? - 13 weeks in

I want to talk to people in a new field but I hate cold messages. Any experience at all would help. I want advice, not a job directly. How do you phrase the request?

Do not apologise for asking. Most people remember someone who helped them.

Thanks for writing this out. I went through something close to it last year, and it settled down once I kept a simple log of every call and form.