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Cold messages to people in my field, do they work?
Mei Abara
6/17/2026, 4:21:39 AM
I want to talk to people in a new field but I hate cold messages. It has been weighing on me all week. I worry about bothering people. What did you ask?
Tariq Abara
7/2/2026, 6:53:52 PM
I wrote three short lines: who I am, why them and a small ask for fifteen minutes. About one in four said yes.
Yuki Abara
9/18/2026, 3:03:44 AM
Do not apologise for asking. Most people remember someone who helped them.
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