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Cold messages to people in my field, do they work? - any advice?
Lior Okonkwo
5/1/2026, 6:29:08 AM
A friend suggested informational chats and I do not know how to ask. I am in Kansas City, in case local advice matters. I want advice, not a job directly. How do you phrase the request?
Idris Okonkwo
9/21/2026, 10:51:26 PM
Follow up with a thank-you and a short update. One of my chats led to a referral a month later.
Malaika Okonkwo
9/22/2026, 4:32:44 PM
I wrote three short lines: who I am, why them and a small ask for fifteen minutes. About one in four said yes.
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