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Lukas Nkemelu · 2026-08-16T00:29:10.581Z

A friend suggested informational chats and I do not know how to ask. Any experience at all would help. I worry about bothering people. What did you ask?

Lukas Nkemelu
8/16/2026, 2:29:10 AM
A friend suggested informational chats and I do not know how to ask. Any experience at all would help. I worry about bothering people. What did you ask?
Ingrid Nkemelu
9/25/2026, 4:35:36 PM
I asked what they wish they had known at my stage. People enjoy answering that.

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