COBRA quote is huge, any alternatives? (update)

I just got my COBRA paperwork and the deadline to decide is close. I do not usually post, so bear with me. My spouse has a chronic condition, so dropping coverage feels risky. How did you decide?

I priced both side by side: total yearly cost, doctors in network and the deductible. Marketplace was cheaper for us, but only because our doctors were covered.

A quick call to the plan's member line cleared up two things for us that the letter did not.